Ask the Hairy Dogfathers: Doggy Chaperon Woes

Published A Few Days Ago
ADVERTISEMENT

Two’s company, three’s a crowd… especially when an overprotective Rottweiler is involved! The Hairy Dogfathers know how you can make room for another person in your pack.

Hey guys,

I met a guy who I thought was awesome. I invited him over for dinner, and I left him alone with my dog Bruno (a Rottweiler). When I came back from the kitchen, well, the guy was gone! I texted him to ask why he just up and left, and he texted me back: “THAT DOG IS NUTS.”

Well, there is no way I am going to stand for that, and good riddance to him!

Bruno, is my 4 year old Rotti. He’s a sweetheart, he’s my big baby! He’s a bit of a clown, but he knows when to be serious. Bruno is well socialized and well trained. I did my research before I got him. He goes to doggy day care and enjoys playing on the dog beach. He is NOT nuts! He can be protective, but that’s fine with me!

But, I am just unsure if Bruno is being jealous, or if I am really bringing home bad dudes. This isn’t the first time that a date has made a run for the door due to my dog. I don’t know what to do. I love Bruno, and he loves me, but is there for room for three?

-Bruno’s Mom

Related:No Walkies, No Lovin’!

Bruno sounds like a good companion that makes you happy. I am of two minds here, in general I trust my dogs’ judgement of people, and generally they are bang on. That said, it seems you have noticed a pattern that indicates that your dog might think you already have a boyfriend… and his name is Bruno! Thankfully you love each other, but if you want to add another human to your pack you may have to try a different approach. Try integrating a new boyfriend slowly, and focus on activities that Bruno enjoys, such as a nice walk or going to the dog beach. That way Bruno will associate the new guy with good things and happy places. The second benefit is that it shows the new guy that Bruno is an important part of your life and that if he doesn’t like the dog beach he can move on to another fish in the sea.

Related:Doggy Custody Arrangements

I can relate! I never would have met André if my dog, River, hadn’t chased away some lousy dates! True story! When I was playing the dating game, if things were going well, it was time to meet my dog! I would say, “If you want to be a part of my life, my dog is going to have to approve.” Thankfully River was really picky – no way was I going to be wasting my time!

There is no way I want someone around who doesn’t like my dog, or my dogs don’t like. It sounds like Bruno is a good judge of character. He might be picking up on something that you aren’t noticing yourself. It might be a good time to take a break from dating, and focus on friends. Give yourself, and Bruno a chance to recharge and focus on what’s important to you. Then in time, when you meet the right guy, Bruno will let you know.

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

You May Like

Curly-Coated Retriever

The agile Curly-Coated Retriever (or Curly) is a multiple-purpose dog that is happy running in the fields, retrieving in the water or lounging on the couch.
Peanut Butter and Cheese Dog Treat Recipe

I think this Peanut Butter and Cheese Dog Treat Recipe may be a new favorite at our house. I already had all of the ingredients on hand!
Saltwater Goby Fish

Saltwater Goby Fish are a large family of fish made up of over 2000 distinct species. Most species of saltwater goby fish are extremely small in size.
Clydesdale Horse

The Clydesdale horse is adored for more than its unique appearance and strength, as it is also graceful, gentle-hearted, tender, and smart.
How To Load a Kong Like A Pro: Sausage Gun Hack

Perfect for dogs that need to be kept busy, treat toys are a godsend to pet parents. But did you know that there''s an art to stuffing treat toys - it''s a sausage gun!
2014 Dog New Year’s Resolutions

New Year''s Resolutions feel like an impossible to-do list and we give them up quickly. But would you be more likely to keep them if they involved your dog?
Pet-Themed Coloring Books for Adults

Do you like to think and color outside of the lines? Turn to adult coloring for stress relief and check out these five pet-themed coloring books for adults.
American Walking Pony

The American Walking Pony is a true pleasure to work with. This horse breed is calm and docile, and is comfortable to ride.
Adoptable Dog of the Week - Sandy

Sweet, playful, and full of life, this striking gal is looking for someone to give her a forever home! Our Adoptable Dog of the Week is Sandy, an almost 2 years old Border Collie and Shepherd mix from Lincoln, Nebraska.
What is an Ovary-Sparing Spay?

If you want to prevent unwanted litters but don''t want to put your female dog at risk for health problems, consider a partial spay or an ovary-sparing spay.
Go Bananas and Honey Dog Biscuit Recipe

We like how our Go Bananas and Honey Dog Biscuit Recipe only features a few key ingredients, because sometimes less really is more. Super easy to make!
Adoptable Dog of the Week-Jai

Our Adoptable Dog of the Week is Jai, a 5 years old Australian Shepherd from Dodson, Montana. He is neutered, up to date on his shots, and housetrained.
Kakariki

Kakariki has all the traits you''d want in a pet parrot- fun, friendly and smart. They''re also known as the Red-crowned parakeet.
Glass Fish

The glass fish is a fascinating species of aquarium fish. Its most astounding feature is its transparent body which reveals its bones and internal organs.
Dogo Argentino

The Dogo Argentino is the canine equivalent of an armored tank. This breed is brave and strong, but is also manageable and protective of its human owners.