Ask the Hairy Dogfathers: Grand Day for a Grand-Dog

Published A Few Days Ago
ADVERTISEMENT
fast facts

TopFeatures
1
ADVERTISEMENT

Your daughter’s big day has arrived… but she’s not the one in white, her dog is! A grandmother asks the Hairy Dogfathers for advice about the big day.

Dear Hairy Dogfathers,

From the moment our daughter was born, I held her in my arms, and pictured her life. You know, high school graduation, going off to college, getting married, and having kids of her own. Things didn’t really follow that linear plan, but I am still proud of her. We watched as she grew, always more interested in animals than people. After college she saved and bought a house, and with much carefully research and planning she welcomed her first dog. We enjoyed having a gift under the tree for our “grand dog.” But now, things have gone just a tad weird.

We received a wedding invitation in the mail for our grand dog.

I have no idea how to proceed. As the “grandmother of the groom,” what is my role in all of this? Do people give gifts? Do I wear what I would to a normal wedding? Please don’t laugh. I truly have no idea on how to how to proceed.

Signed, Grandmother of the Groom

Related:Dog Birthday Blues

I apologise, I couldn’t help but snicker, but only because I remember my reaction when I first heard of doggy weddings… but realizing that it wasn’t a joke, I accepted that it’s now a thing people do. It’s nice to see that you have been supporting your daughter in her passion, and I’m sure she has greatly appreciated you making the effort to being so nice to your “grand-dog.” Now buying gifts for special occasions is one thing, but a wedding… I can see how this is a difficult issue for you. My suggestion is to treat the wedding similarly as you other occasions such as Christmas, basically keep the same theme but make it doggy appropriate. Wear something nice, but nothing fancy that may get ruined in dog friendly place. Here’s a gift idea: buy a small gift like his and hers dog bowls. If your daughter has went to the effort of planning this, it’s clear that it’s something she cares about, so support her by making a little effort and ask her if there is anything that you can help with.

Related:True-Love Tips for A Woof-tastic Dog Wedding

Summer is the time for weddings! I am a little bit jealous, but I will keep checking the mail. I am sure my invite is on the way!

Well, honey, this is a party. So act like it! Take this and RUN with it. Call up your daughter and set a date for dress shopping. You don’t need to go crazy and blow the budget, but think of this as a chance to add to your wardrobe. This is a great opportunity for some mother-daughter time. No matter the occasion, it’s going to bring you and your daughter closer together. Perhaps after dress shopping, you two can set a lunch date and go pick out a wedding gift as well.

Honey, be thankful. At least it’s a wedding, not a funeral!

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

You May Like

Get Stoked to Go Skateboarding With Your Dog

Are you a poser or a real sk8er boi or grrl? If you''re the real deal, we''ve put together a few tips on how to skateboard safely with your dog.
Dog Daycare or Dog Walker: Which One Should You Choose?

Does it make more sense to hire a dog walker or put your pup in doggy day? Ask yourself a few questions to figure out which option suits you best.
A Rescuer’s Advice on TNR, Fostering, and Adoption

The idea of cat rescue appeals to you, but there''s so much to do - how can you help? We talk to an expert who spends all her time helping kitties in need.
Costumed Kitties Pay Homage to Taylor Swift and Sparks Fly!

Meet Fan Girl Jessica, who dresses her cat up to match Taylor Swift in honor of her new album, ""Reputation,"" being released in November!
Hap Cichlids

Hap cichlids exhibit a wide variety of colorations and patterns ranging from solid blue to multicolored combinations of red, orange, and purple.
Daug

The Daug was developed by crossing the short-legged Dachshund with the wrinkly-faced Pug. Needless to say, the Daug is one cute and charming pooch!
Best Dog Crate Covers

Dog crate covers might seem simple enough, but there are plenty of factors to consider before buying. Read on to learn which covers are best on the market!
Top 10 Comfy Dog Beds

I love watching Oscar all curled up in his dog bed. That''s why I came up with the Top 10 Comfy Dog Beds that will give your dog the sweetest dreams.
Best Rawhide for Dogs

Rawhide for dogs is a chewy, natural treat that pooches go bananas for. Read on to learn more about the benefits and the potential dangers of rawhide.
Best Litter Deodorizers for Cats

We love our cats, but we hate the smell of their bathroom! Want to get rid of the stink? Try one of these best litter deodorizers for cats.?
Ram Cichlids

Ram Cichlids (Mikrogeophagus ramirezi) are a species of freshwater cichlid that can be found in slow-moving waters throughout the Orinoco River basin.
Spiny Softshell Turtle

There are several subspecies of the Spiny Softshell Turtle, but one thing that makes all of them interesting is their unique shell.
Squirrel Hides Nut In Dog’s Fur [Video]

Now here’s a place where none of the other squirrels would ever look for your winter store of nuts – in a dog’s fur! And that’s just…
Spanish Town Mails Dog Poop To Owners That Leave It Behind

If you don’t scoop the poop in this town, you’re in for a smelly special delivery Aren’t you sick of seeing dog poop that’s been left…
Turkish Woman Builds Ladder to Window For Cats To Come In From The Col

A Turkish dentist has opened her home to stray cats during the winter. She''s built a ladder that leads to her window so they can come in and warm up.